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Hоw tо Tell if a Guy’s Flirting
You’re at a bookstore, or perhaps you’re in line someplace, and a guy starts talking to you. Now, he could just be friendly, or he might be flirting. The problem is, how can you tell? Luckily, there are several ways to tell if a guy’s flirting.
• A Guy’s Flirting if he is in Your Personal Space
Personal space specifically refers to 12 inches that surrounds any given person on all sides. Of course, there are some situations in which you can’t help but be in someone’s personal space, like if you’re in a packed crowd. However, if you’re in line at a coffee shop, and there are only four people in that line, no one has to be in each other’s personal space.
However, if you find yourself in such a situation, and the guy right behind you is in your personal space, the guy’s flirting in a subtle way. You see, people only get that close to someone they are attracted to, or someone that they feel comfortable being that close to.
• Is a Guy Flirting if he Starts a Conversation With You?
Well, yes and no. Some guys are just naturally flirtatious, and while they will readily start a conversation with a woman that they find attractive, sometimes they just like to flirt, and that’s it. Other guys are just naturally friendly, and you can tell if the guy’s flirting if he makes no mention of a significant other. Guys who aren’t flirting will mention that they have a significant other right away.
• Subconscious Signs a Guy’s Flirting
Sometimes a guy will flirt in a subconscious way. This happens especially when the guy in question is shy, and is not sure, if he did get enough courage to show interest, if you would feel the same way. Look for little signs like him lightly touching your arm during a conversation, or prolonged eye contact.
Remember, dating can be just as stressful for guys as it can be for girls. While girls are always looking for that perfect guy, guys are stressing not only about finding the perfect girl, but also about how they can make the first move.
• Are You Interested?
So, you have figured out that a guy’s flirting. Now the question remains as to whether or not you would like to encourage this flirting, or politely decline. In this case, follow your heart, because there is no better advice than that.